12-01-2024, 02:11 AM
Honestly, I think it's really important to communicate openly in any relationship, especially when it comes to intimacy. If you're feeling like you're not able to orgasm during sex, it might be helpful to talk to your partner. Not because it's his fault, but because it can help reduce the pressure and confusion for both of you. The fact that he keeps asking if you’ve finished shows he cares, and he genuinely wants to help you enjoy your time together. If you keep pretending or not saying anything, it might build up some anxiety and cause more stress in the long run.
I would also suggest sharing how you feel during sex, what feels good, and what doesn’t. Sometimes, the way our bodies respond to a partner can be different from how they respond to ourselves. Maybe your partner can adjust and find ways to help you reach that point. It’s not about him "doing something wrong" – it’s just the dynamics of your chemistry that might need fine-tuning.
On the other hand, if you don't feel comfortable talking about it just yet, it’s totally okay to take your time. Everyone's experiences are different, and there's no rush. But keeping a wall up, especially when he’s clearly invested in your satisfaction, might only make things more awkward later.
As for how I would feel as a guy, I'd definitely want to know. The last thing I would want is for my partner to feel like they're not being heard or that they have to hide their true feelings. It’s about creating a space where both of you can be honest and grow together, not just in sex, but in the relationship as a whole.
I would also suggest sharing how you feel during sex, what feels good, and what doesn’t. Sometimes, the way our bodies respond to a partner can be different from how they respond to ourselves. Maybe your partner can adjust and find ways to help you reach that point. It’s not about him "doing something wrong" – it’s just the dynamics of your chemistry that might need fine-tuning.
On the other hand, if you don't feel comfortable talking about it just yet, it’s totally okay to take your time. Everyone's experiences are different, and there's no rush. But keeping a wall up, especially when he’s clearly invested in your satisfaction, might only make things more awkward later.
As for how I would feel as a guy, I'd definitely want to know. The last thing I would want is for my partner to feel like they're not being heard or that they have to hide their true feelings. It’s about creating a space where both of you can be honest and grow together, not just in sex, but in the relationship as a whole.