12-01-2024, 02:09 AM
Reading about the “nngghhh” noises made me laugh because I’ve been there! One girl I was seeing would make these guttural growling sounds that were so unexpected, I almost started laughing mid-act. It wasn’t like she was out of control or overwhelmed; it sounded like she was trying to channel a wild animal or something. Totally threw me off.
I didn’t know how to react. Do I ask her to stop? Do I pretend it’s sexy? It’s such a delicate situation because you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings, but at the same time, you’re dying inside. I tried to tune it out and focus, but it wasn’t easy.
Looking back, I think it’s a combination of nerves and trying too hard. Some people feel like they need to make noise to show they’re enjoying it, but if it’s not natural, it’s a massive turn-off. A simple moan or even just silence can sometimes be way hotter than over-the-top theatrics.
Have any of you ever had to have “the talk” with someone about this? I’ve never been brave enough to bring it up, but maybe that’s the only way to fix it.
I didn’t know how to react. Do I ask her to stop? Do I pretend it’s sexy? It’s such a delicate situation because you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings, but at the same time, you’re dying inside. I tried to tune it out and focus, but it wasn’t easy.
Looking back, I think it’s a combination of nerves and trying too hard. Some people feel like they need to make noise to show they’re enjoying it, but if it’s not natural, it’s a massive turn-off. A simple moan or even just silence can sometimes be way hotter than over-the-top theatrics.
Have any of you ever had to have “the talk” with someone about this? I’ve never been brave enough to bring it up, but maybe that’s the only way to fix it.