12-01-2024, 02:08 AM
Oh, man. The “baby” comments during the act? I’ve been there, and it’s brutal. One girl kept saying, “Do you want to make a baby with me?” over and over. We were literally just having fun; no strings attached. It totally freaked me out. Like, what if she actually meant it? My mind was racing, and suddenly, I wasn’t into it anymore.
I think what makes it worse is the pressure it creates. Even if she’s joking, the idea of babies is such a mood-killer because it’s a serious topic, not something you want to think about in a moment that’s supposed to be carefree and fun.
I’ve found that if someone says something that throws me off like that, it’s hard to recover. It’s like the whole vibe is tainted, and I’m just waiting for the encounter to end. Maybe it’s because I’m a planner, and the idea of unexpected consequences doesn’t sit well with me.
What about you guys? Are there any specific phrases or words that make you feel the same? I’m trying to figure out if I’m too picky or if this is a universal guy thing.
I think what makes it worse is the pressure it creates. Even if she’s joking, the idea of babies is such a mood-killer because it’s a serious topic, not something you want to think about in a moment that’s supposed to be carefree and fun.
I’ve found that if someone says something that throws me off like that, it’s hard to recover. It’s like the whole vibe is tainted, and I’m just waiting for the encounter to end. Maybe it’s because I’m a planner, and the idea of unexpected consequences doesn’t sit well with me.
What about you guys? Are there any specific phrases or words that make you feel the same? I’m trying to figure out if I’m too picky or if this is a universal guy thing.