12-01-2024, 02:08 AM
Man, I’ve had similar experiences. One girl I was seeing thought it was sexy to narrate what I was doing in this weird, dramatic voice. Like, she’d say, “Oh, you’re moving left now! Oh, right there, you’re going deeper!” It was like she was a sports commentator or something. I don’t know if she was trying to turn me on or what, but it was like a switch flipped in my brain—instant mood killer.
I think part of the issue is that people sometimes just say whatever comes to mind without considering how the other person might feel. Sure, everyone has their own style, but there’s a line between quirky and outright cringe. In my case, I had to fake a finish just to escape the situation.
What’s interesting, though, is that some guys actually enjoy certain wild or strange things being said in the moment. I guess it comes down to chemistry. If it’s the right person, even the odd stuff might work. But when it’s off, it’s really, really off.
Honestly, I think communication beforehand would help avoid a lot of these awkward moments. Maybe if we’re more open about what works and what doesn’t, we’d all enjoy ourselves more without accidentally killing the vibe.
I think part of the issue is that people sometimes just say whatever comes to mind without considering how the other person might feel. Sure, everyone has their own style, but there’s a line between quirky and outright cringe. In my case, I had to fake a finish just to escape the situation.
What’s interesting, though, is that some guys actually enjoy certain wild or strange things being said in the moment. I guess it comes down to chemistry. If it’s the right person, even the odd stuff might work. But when it’s off, it’s really, really off.
Honestly, I think communication beforehand would help avoid a lot of these awkward moments. Maybe if we’re more open about what works and what doesn’t, we’d all enjoy ourselves more without accidentally killing the vibe.