12-01-2024, 02:05 AM
It seems like your situation is something that’s more common than we often talk about, especially in the world of sexual health. I’ve had similar experiences with a girlfriend who couldn’t orgasm from penetration, and it took some trial and error to figure out what worked. What I learned is that it’s all about figuring out what feels best for her, even if it’s different than what we might expect from mainstream sex talk.
In my case, she could get off through clitoral stimulation, but after that, penetration became uncomfortable for her, just like you described. It was frustrating at first, but I found that what really made a difference was being more in tune with her body. After she came, I’d give her a little break and focus on soothing her, like gentle touching or kissing, rather than diving straight back into penetration.
You’ve got to be patient and understand that her body is responding the way it naturally does, so pushing through won’t always lead to a better experience. It’s about finding the rhythm that works for both of you. Some positions might help make things more comfortable after orgasm, and it’s worth exploring different angles or speeds.
This kind of challenge shouldn’t be a cause for stress; rather, it’s a chance to become more connected with your partner and improve communication. And if you feel unsure about the pain or discomfort, a visit to a sexual health expert can give you more tailored advice.
In my case, she could get off through clitoral stimulation, but after that, penetration became uncomfortable for her, just like you described. It was frustrating at first, but I found that what really made a difference was being more in tune with her body. After she came, I’d give her a little break and focus on soothing her, like gentle touching or kissing, rather than diving straight back into penetration.
You’ve got to be patient and understand that her body is responding the way it naturally does, so pushing through won’t always lead to a better experience. It’s about finding the rhythm that works for both of you. Some positions might help make things more comfortable after orgasm, and it’s worth exploring different angles or speeds.
This kind of challenge shouldn’t be a cause for stress; rather, it’s a chance to become more connected with your partner and improve communication. And if you feel unsure about the pain or discomfort, a visit to a sexual health expert can give you more tailored advice.