12-01-2024, 02:04 AM
It sounds like you’re dealing with a combination of excitement and performance anxiety. One of the best ways to fix this is by helping him get comfortable with the idea of taking his time. I recommend practicing tantric sex techniques, which focus a lot on breath control and building the sexual energy slowly. These techniques can teach him how to control his arousal, prolonging the experience.
Also, try working on his mental focus. Some guys do well with guided meditation or even just breathing exercises before sex. If his focus is too much on the end result, it can cause him to finish too early. A simple breathing technique—like deep inhales and slow exhales—can help him stay in control and keep his mind in the moment.
Additionally, a lot of men benefit from a bit of "warm-up." Focus on sensual touch, light kissing, and teasing. This can help reduce that initial rush and make the entire experience feel more balanced. The more time you both spend on foreplay, the more likely he is to last longer.
Lastly, be patient and keep communication open. It’s important to work through this as a team, without any guilt or shame attached to it. Just keep the vibe fun, and things will get better over time!
Also, try working on his mental focus. Some guys do well with guided meditation or even just breathing exercises before sex. If his focus is too much on the end result, it can cause him to finish too early. A simple breathing technique—like deep inhales and slow exhales—can help him stay in control and keep his mind in the moment.
Additionally, a lot of men benefit from a bit of "warm-up." Focus on sensual touch, light kissing, and teasing. This can help reduce that initial rush and make the entire experience feel more balanced. The more time you both spend on foreplay, the more likely he is to last longer.
Lastly, be patient and keep communication open. It’s important to work through this as a team, without any guilt or shame attached to it. Just keep the vibe fun, and things will get better over time!