12-01-2024, 02:03 AM
Okay, this is a bit of an embarrassing topic, but I get it! When a guy gets too excited, it can lead to some awkward moments. One thing that helped me was focusing on relaxation. When you’re both relaxed, you have more control. It sounds like your fiancé might be getting a bit too worked up too quickly. Have you tried a "slow down" approach before you go into full-on action? Maybe just kissing and caressing for a while before jumping into things?
Another thing that helped me and my partner was setting a mood with less focus on sex and more on bonding. Sometimes, not having the pressure to "perform" can really help. Focus on enjoying each other’s company, and don’t feel rushed. The anticipation can be just as exciting as the main event!
If he’s open to it, you could also try different forms of contraception, like thicker condoms, to reduce the sensitivity. That can help him last longer without too much effort on his part. Also, a bit of communication goes a long way. Just make sure to talk openly about what feels good for both of you and what isn’t working.
I’ve also found that taking turns and not always expecting the same rhythm can help balance things out. If you both focus on each other’s pleasure, you’ll both end up satisfied!
Another thing that helped me and my partner was setting a mood with less focus on sex and more on bonding. Sometimes, not having the pressure to "perform" can really help. Focus on enjoying each other’s company, and don’t feel rushed. The anticipation can be just as exciting as the main event!
If he’s open to it, you could also try different forms of contraception, like thicker condoms, to reduce the sensitivity. That can help him last longer without too much effort on his part. Also, a bit of communication goes a long way. Just make sure to talk openly about what feels good for both of you and what isn’t working.
I’ve also found that taking turns and not always expecting the same rhythm can help balance things out. If you both focus on each other’s pleasure, you’ll both end up satisfied!