12-01-2024, 02:03 AM
I totally feel you. This is something that a lot of guys struggle with too. First thing, it’s really important not to make him feel bad about it. A lot of guys are very sensitive when it comes to performance anxiety. One way to address it is by shifting the focus away from him and making it about both of you. If he knows he’s pleasing you, that can take some of the pressure off, and he’ll focus less on his own performance.
Another tip is practicing a little "role reversal" where you take the lead more often. When you’re in charge, you can control the pace, and if he’s getting too excited, you can slow things down. It can give him a break and help him regain some control over his body.
The technique of edging might also help him. A lot of guys report that this helps them learn how to delay orgasm. You could make it fun by turning it into a bit of a game or challenge. Try mixing things up with foreplay too—he might be rushing toward penetration, so engaging in a lot more oral or manual stimulation before sex can help both of you enjoy a longer experience.
Finally, there are also some mental tricks like focusing on something completely unrelated during sex. If he gets lost in his head and distracts himself, it might give him the space to last a little longer. It’s a weird one, but it works for some!
Another tip is practicing a little "role reversal" where you take the lead more often. When you’re in charge, you can control the pace, and if he’s getting too excited, you can slow things down. It can give him a break and help him regain some control over his body.
The technique of edging might also help him. A lot of guys report that this helps them learn how to delay orgasm. You could make it fun by turning it into a bit of a game or challenge. Try mixing things up with foreplay too—he might be rushing toward penetration, so engaging in a lot more oral or manual stimulation before sex can help both of you enjoy a longer experience.
Finally, there are also some mental tricks like focusing on something completely unrelated during sex. If he gets lost in his head and distracts himself, it might give him the space to last a little longer. It’s a weird one, but it works for some!