12-01-2024, 02:02 AM
It’s definitely a tricky situation, but don’t be discouraged—there are things you can do to help. One tip I’ve heard a lot of guys swear by is using desensitizing sprays or condoms. These products contain mild numbing agents that can help him last a bit longer. It doesn’t mean he won’t feel anything, but it can take the edge off and make the experience last longer. You could also try focusing more on teasing him during foreplay, building that anticipation. The longer you delay the main act, the more in control he might feel.
Another thing to consider is his mental state. If he’s overly focused on making you climax, he might be stressing himself out. Sometimes letting go of that pressure and focusing on enjoying the moment can really change things. Why not try a more relaxed, "slow and steady" approach, where the goal isn’t to finish quickly but rather to enjoy the build-up and sensations?
You could also try asking him to experiment with edging—stopping right before he’s about to finish, waiting a few moments, and then going again. It might feel a little awkward at first, but over time, he can develop more control. You could work on this together, making it part of your routine, so it feels less like a fix and more like a fun challenge.
Lastly, I think patience is key here. Guys get embarrassed by this stuff, but a relaxed, understanding environment can make all the difference. So try to keep things lighthearted and playful, and hopefully, over time, he’ll learn to last longer!
Another thing to consider is his mental state. If he’s overly focused on making you climax, he might be stressing himself out. Sometimes letting go of that pressure and focusing on enjoying the moment can really change things. Why not try a more relaxed, "slow and steady" approach, where the goal isn’t to finish quickly but rather to enjoy the build-up and sensations?
You could also try asking him to experiment with edging—stopping right before he’s about to finish, waiting a few moments, and then going again. It might feel a little awkward at first, but over time, he can develop more control. You could work on this together, making it part of your routine, so it feels less like a fix and more like a fun challenge.
Lastly, I think patience is key here. Guys get embarrassed by this stuff, but a relaxed, understanding environment can make all the difference. So try to keep things lighthearted and playful, and hopefully, over time, he’ll learn to last longer!