12-01-2024, 01:51 AM
Yo, I know exactly what you're going through. I’ve had this same issue in the past where I couldn’t last more than a minute or two during oral, and it was frustrating. The excitement factor is huge, but I also realized it’s about building mental stamina. It’s not just physical; it’s how you manage your excitement in the moment. One thing that really helped me was trying to control the pace from the beginning. I’d be mindful of what I was doing and keep it slow at first.
Also, something I’ve tried is focusing on the sensations in a way that doesn’t just involve pleasure. For example, I might focus on her body movements or the way the environment feels rather than just my own excitement. It helps distract from the overwhelming feeling and lets me last longer.
Another thing to consider is switching positions. If you’re giving head, maybe take breaks and change positions to give yourself a second to reset. This might make the whole experience more enjoyable for both of you, and it could help you control yourself better in the long run.
Trust me, this is something that improves with experience, so don’t be too hard on yourself. It’ll take time, but you’ll get better at it!
Also, something I’ve tried is focusing on the sensations in a way that doesn’t just involve pleasure. For example, I might focus on her body movements or the way the environment feels rather than just my own excitement. It helps distract from the overwhelming feeling and lets me last longer.
Another thing to consider is switching positions. If you’re giving head, maybe take breaks and change positions to give yourself a second to reset. This might make the whole experience more enjoyable for both of you, and it could help you control yourself better in the long run.
Trust me, this is something that improves with experience, so don’t be too hard on yourself. It’ll take time, but you’ll get better at it!