12-01-2024, 01:50 AM
Man, I’ve been in that exact situation before. When you’re in the heat of the moment, it can be hard to stay grounded. It’s like your mind goes into overdrive, and your body just reacts way too quickly. One thing I realized is that being mindful of your breathing can make a huge difference. If you slow down and take deeper breaths, it can help control your arousal levels. Try to focus on the sensations without rushing the experience.
Another thing I’ve tried is talking to her about it—like, letting her know that you’re trying to last longer. If she’s into it, she might help you control the pace by switching things up or taking it slow, which is great for both of you. Sometimes, the pressure to “perform” can make things worse, but being open and honest can really take some of that tension off.
Also, one method that works for me is to not go into situations with expectations. If you’re already thinking “I’m going to last longer this time,” the pressure builds up, and you’re more likely to fail. Just focus on the experience and see where it takes you.
It’s all about trial and error, man. You’ll figure it out as you go, so don’t let a few quick sessions get you discouraged.
Another thing I’ve tried is talking to her about it—like, letting her know that you’re trying to last longer. If she’s into it, she might help you control the pace by switching things up or taking it slow, which is great for both of you. Sometimes, the pressure to “perform” can make things worse, but being open and honest can really take some of that tension off.
Also, one method that works for me is to not go into situations with expectations. If you’re already thinking “I’m going to last longer this time,” the pressure builds up, and you’re more likely to fail. Just focus on the experience and see where it takes you.
It’s all about trial and error, man. You’ll figure it out as you go, so don’t let a few quick sessions get you discouraged.