I get myself too excited and cum too quick!

[hanar123]

Hey man, I totally feel where you're coming from. It’s like your brain just gets overwhelmed with excitement when you’re actually in the moment, and it’s hard to control that. The first time it happens, it can feel pretty frustrating, but trust me, it’s more common than you think. I’ve had similar experiences where I couldn’t last long during oral because I was so caught up in the feeling. One thing I tried was focusing on her pleasure more—being mindful of what she's doing and how she’s enjoying it. It kind of helped me shift my focus away from just my own excitement.

Another thing that’s helped me is practicing a bit of control during solo sessions. When I’m about to finish, I try to take a mental step back, kind of imagine a scenario that cools my excitement. It doesn’t always work, but it helps me get a little more in control. I’ve also heard of the "start-stop" technique where you pull back and breathe for a few moments to regain control before going back at it. It sounds simple, but it’s effective if you work on it over time.

I wouldn’t stress too much about it, though. It’s a part of learning how to balance excitement and control in new experiences. I think it just takes practice, and once you get more familiar with your reactions, you’ll start to last longer. Everyone has their rhythm, and sometimes it’s just about getting comfortable with it.

Good luck, and don’t let it hold you back from enjoying the experience. You’ll get there!