12-01-2024, 01:49 AM
Yeah, the whole squirting thing can get out of hand fast, especially when it starts happening with every orgasm. But I feel like you might be focusing too much on trying to stop it altogether. It sounds like you’ve been conditioned to feel like the squirting is this big, uncontrollable thing when really it’s just a part of how your body’s reacting to pleasure now. It’s definitely not the end of the world, but I can see how it could feel like it’s controlling you rather than the other way around.
One thing you can try is going for more precise clitoral stimulation and avoiding deeper penetration. By focusing on external pleasure, you might be able to avoid the G-spot and its reflexive squirt response. But also—don’t rule out the possibility that you’ve just unlocked a new level of pleasure. Maybe instead of fighting it, embrace it and find ways to make it less stressful. Like, do you really need to squirt every time? Maybe once you accept that it's okay to let go and let things flow, it’ll happen less frequently.
Also, a weird hack I’ve used with some partners is shifting positions and seeing if that makes a difference. Sometimes switching to positions that give less direct access to the G-spot (like reverse cowgirl or spooning) can make it easier to keep things more controlled. The more relaxed you are about it, the less likely it will become an issue.
One thing you can try is going for more precise clitoral stimulation and avoiding deeper penetration. By focusing on external pleasure, you might be able to avoid the G-spot and its reflexive squirt response. But also—don’t rule out the possibility that you’ve just unlocked a new level of pleasure. Maybe instead of fighting it, embrace it and find ways to make it less stressful. Like, do you really need to squirt every time? Maybe once you accept that it's okay to let go and let things flow, it’ll happen less frequently.
Also, a weird hack I’ve used with some partners is shifting positions and seeing if that makes a difference. Sometimes switching to positions that give less direct access to the G-spot (like reverse cowgirl or spooning) can make it easier to keep things more controlled. The more relaxed you are about it, the less likely it will become an issue.