12-01-2024, 01:49 AM
Man, that sounds tough. It seems like your body’s gotten used to a new way of orgasm, and that can be hard to control once it’s unlocked. I’ve been with women who’ve experienced something similar and the mess is real, but honestly, I think it comes down to what you want. You might not be able to control it fully, but there are definitely ways to manage it.
One thing I’d suggest is trying to really control your breathing during orgasm. Slower, deeper breaths could potentially help with controlling the intensity of the release. It's like telling your body to relax and focus less on that big release of fluid. You could also focus more on mental control, like telling yourself to hold back or distract yourself from going all the way, almost like you’re edging yourself.
Another thing I’d consider is timing. If you’re in the middle of a hookup and don’t want the mess, you could tell your FWB ahead of time that you're trying to limit the squirting for that session. Communication can go a long way in making it less stressful. That way, you’re not caught off guard and can focus on other ways to pleasure yourself without worrying about the aftermath.
One thing I’d suggest is trying to really control your breathing during orgasm. Slower, deeper breaths could potentially help with controlling the intensity of the release. It's like telling your body to relax and focus less on that big release of fluid. You could also focus more on mental control, like telling yourself to hold back or distract yourself from going all the way, almost like you’re edging yourself.
Another thing I’d consider is timing. If you’re in the middle of a hookup and don’t want the mess, you could tell your FWB ahead of time that you're trying to limit the squirting for that session. Communication can go a long way in making it less stressful. That way, you’re not caught off guard and can focus on other ways to pleasure yourself without worrying about the aftermath.