12-01-2024, 01:49 AM
I hear you on this one. The mess is something that seems great in the moment, but when it happens consistently, it can feel like you’re just cleaning up after every time. If I were in your shoes, I’d focus on understanding your body a bit better. Sometimes when our bodies “learn” something new like squirting, it becomes a reflex, and then it's just part of the package.
That said, a good option to try would be to practice a bit of self-awareness before orgasm. When you feel like you’re getting close, try mentally switching gears or even clenching your pelvic floor muscles a little bit. If you engage your pelvic muscles right before climax, it might give you more control over the release. It might feel a little awkward at first, but with practice, you could regain some of that control.
Also, don’t forget that communication is key with FWBs. If you’re dating someone casually, let them know what’s up before things go too far. The more relaxed you are in the situation, the less pressure you’ll put on yourself to control it. Being upfront about not wanting a squirt moment might actually make you feel more comfortable and less tense about it.
That said, a good option to try would be to practice a bit of self-awareness before orgasm. When you feel like you’re getting close, try mentally switching gears or even clenching your pelvic floor muscles a little bit. If you engage your pelvic muscles right before climax, it might give you more control over the release. It might feel a little awkward at first, but with practice, you could regain some of that control.
Also, don’t forget that communication is key with FWBs. If you’re dating someone casually, let them know what’s up before things go too far. The more relaxed you are in the situation, the less pressure you’ll put on yourself to control it. Being upfront about not wanting a squirt moment might actually make you feel more comfortable and less tense about it.