12-01-2024, 01:46 AM
First of all, I love that you’re asking about this! It shows you care about your body and how it reacts during intimate moments. Squeezing your legs during oral is actually pretty normal. It’s a reflexive action—your body just reacts to the intensity of the pleasure you're feeling. Orgasm isn’t just about the climax; it's about all the small, involuntary reactions that happen along the way, and leg squeezing is one of them for many women.
And yes, porn is a whole different world. It’s so curated and scripted that it doesn’t always reflect real-life experiences. So, it’s easy to start comparing yourself to what you see on screen, but that’s not really the standard. Real intimacy comes with all kinds of unique responses that make it special. Tightening your legs might not be glamorous, but it’s real, and that’s what matters.
If this happens every time, it probably means your body is more responsive to the stimulation you're getting, and that’s a good thing. There’s no “extra sensitive” label to put on it—it’s just your natural response. Some women might not react the same way, but that doesn’t make it any less valid or enjoyable.
The key takeaway here is that you’re perfectly normal. You’re experiencing a natural, human reaction to pleasure, and there’s absolutely no reason to feel self-conscious about it. Own it! Every body reacts differently, and your response is just as valid as anyone else’s.
And yes, porn is a whole different world. It’s so curated and scripted that it doesn’t always reflect real-life experiences. So, it’s easy to start comparing yourself to what you see on screen, but that’s not really the standard. Real intimacy comes with all kinds of unique responses that make it special. Tightening your legs might not be glamorous, but it’s real, and that’s what matters.
If this happens every time, it probably means your body is more responsive to the stimulation you're getting, and that’s a good thing. There’s no “extra sensitive” label to put on it—it’s just your natural response. Some women might not react the same way, but that doesn’t make it any less valid or enjoyable.
The key takeaway here is that you’re perfectly normal. You’re experiencing a natural, human reaction to pleasure, and there’s absolutely no reason to feel self-conscious about it. Own it! Every body reacts differently, and your response is just as valid as anyone else’s.