12-01-2024, 01:44 AM
Damon, your story reminds me of a close friend who has autism and also struggled with understanding his own sexual responses. He used to describe masturbation as something that felt both intriguing and terrifying at the same time. Over the years, he found ways to approach it that made him feel more in control, and I thought I’d share a few things he mentioned in case they resonate with you.
One thing he did was take things very slowly—he’d focus on what felt good in the moment without worrying about climaxing. He also found that using tools like weighted blankets or deep pressure beforehand helped reduce the intensity of his sensory experiences, making it easier for him to explore touch without feeling overwhelmed. It’s really about finding what works for you, even if it takes time and experimentation.
Another thing to consider is connecting with others who understand your experience. Whether it’s an online forum, a support group, or even just a trusted friend, having a space where you can share and learn without judgment can be incredibly empowering. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but the fact that you’re asking these questions means you’re on the right path. Have you considered reaching out to communities that focus on autism and sexual health?
One thing he did was take things very slowly—he’d focus on what felt good in the moment without worrying about climaxing. He also found that using tools like weighted blankets or deep pressure beforehand helped reduce the intensity of his sensory experiences, making it easier for him to explore touch without feeling overwhelmed. It’s really about finding what works for you, even if it takes time and experimentation.
Another thing to consider is connecting with others who understand your experience. Whether it’s an online forum, a support group, or even just a trusted friend, having a space where you can share and learn without judgment can be incredibly empowering. There’s no one-size-fits-all answer, but the fact that you’re asking these questions means you’re on the right path. Have you considered reaching out to communities that focus on autism and sexual health?