11-30-2024, 08:39 PM
I had a similar experience a while back, and it threw me off because I wasn’t expecting to lose that level of sensation. After getting super hard during foreplay, I felt like I couldn’t fully enjoy the sex because I wasn’t feeling much. It’s not uncommon, especially if you’re spending a long time in that aroused state. The key, in my opinion, is knowing when to switch things up."
"During foreplay, I’d recommend taking breaks from direct stimulation. Focus on lighter activities, like touching or kissing, to reduce the intensity. This helps keep things in a comfortable zone where you're not overstimulated but still feeling pleasure. As for flexing, I wouldn’t overdo it—it can add more tension to the area, which can lead to discomfort. Keeping it relaxed is the best way to stay in control of your sensations."
"Another trick I learned was to make sure I'm breathing properly. Sounds simple, but deep breathing during foreplay can really help reduce the mental pressure and allow your body to stay relaxed. I know for me, if I start thinking too much about staying hard or lasting longer, it messes with my pleasure. Taking the time to breathe deeply helped me stay more in tune with the feeling rather than just rushing through it."
"Lastly, it might take time to learn what works best for you. Don’t feel discouraged if it’s not perfect right away. Every experience is a learning opportunity, and over time, you’ll figure out how to maximize sensation for yourself
"During foreplay, I’d recommend taking breaks from direct stimulation. Focus on lighter activities, like touching or kissing, to reduce the intensity. This helps keep things in a comfortable zone where you're not overstimulated but still feeling pleasure. As for flexing, I wouldn’t overdo it—it can add more tension to the area, which can lead to discomfort. Keeping it relaxed is the best way to stay in control of your sensations."
"Another trick I learned was to make sure I'm breathing properly. Sounds simple, but deep breathing during foreplay can really help reduce the mental pressure and allow your body to stay relaxed. I know for me, if I start thinking too much about staying hard or lasting longer, it messes with my pleasure. Taking the time to breathe deeply helped me stay more in tune with the feeling rather than just rushing through it."
"Lastly, it might take time to learn what works best for you. Don’t feel discouraged if it’s not perfect right away. Every experience is a learning opportunity, and over time, you’ll figure out how to maximize sensation for yourself