11-30-2024, 08:38 PM
Sounds like you're going through something a lot of guys experience when they're just starting to get more comfortable with sex. I remember having the same feeling where things just didn't feel as intense as I thought they would, especially after a long build-up. The issue might be that you're spending too much time on the edge, trying to hold on to that high level of arousal, which can make you feel numb."
"I don't think you need to worry too much about trying to 'lose' your erection with flexing or anything like that. I tried that before and it felt awkward, honestly. What worked for me was breaking things up with more diverse stimulation. I'd focus on touching, kissing, and just exploring my partner’s body without rushing into penetration. It kept things balanced, and honestly, it made the orgasms feel way better."
"Also, I agree with what others have said about the mental side of things. Once I started taking the pressure off myself and focusing on enjoying the experience without any expectations, I noticed a big improvement in how I felt during sex. I wasn’t constantly thinking, ‘Is this normal?’ I just let my body react naturally."
"In terms of physical tips, try to keep your pelvic area relaxed. Maybe do a little stretching or massaging beforehand. It can make a big difference. But if you’re still feeling numbness or if it continues over time, seeing a doctor for peace of mind could be a good call
"I don't think you need to worry too much about trying to 'lose' your erection with flexing or anything like that. I tried that before and it felt awkward, honestly. What worked for me was breaking things up with more diverse stimulation. I'd focus on touching, kissing, and just exploring my partner’s body without rushing into penetration. It kept things balanced, and honestly, it made the orgasms feel way better."
"Also, I agree with what others have said about the mental side of things. Once I started taking the pressure off myself and focusing on enjoying the experience without any expectations, I noticed a big improvement in how I felt during sex. I wasn’t constantly thinking, ‘Is this normal?’ I just let my body react naturally."
"In terms of physical tips, try to keep your pelvic area relaxed. Maybe do a little stretching or massaging beforehand. It can make a big difference. But if you’re still feeling numbness or if it continues over time, seeing a doctor for peace of mind could be a good call