11-30-2024, 08:25 PM
I think your approach to tracking ejaculation is really interesting. I’m 42, and my ejaculation frequency has varied quite a bit over the years. I’ve noticed that when I’m in a committed relationship, I tend to ejaculate more frequently, particularly if there's a lot of chemistry and emotional connection. On the other hand, when I’m single or not as active, I definitely notice a dip in frequency. It’s not just about sexual attraction but also about mental and emotional factors. When I’m more stressed or distracted, it’s much harder for me to feel in the mood, and as a result, my ejaculation frequency drops.
I’m also a fan of self-pleasure, especially when I’m not in a relationship or things are slow in the bedroom department. It helps me keep my libido up and keeps me from feeling too restless. But I've learned that sometimes less is more. When I focus too much on self-pleasure, it can start to feel a bit draining, and I’d rather save my energy for a more fulfilling sexual experience with a partner. I guess it’s all about balance. I think as long as it’s not interfering with your day-to-day life, whether it's 14 or 22 ejaculations a week, it's not really a problem.
One thing I try to be conscious of is whether ejaculation is becoming an obsessive habit. If I notice that I’m ejaculating too much or not feeling satisfied, I pause and ask myself if I’m just going through the motions or if I'm truly enjoying the experience. I’ve found that this check-in with myself helps me maintain a healthy perspective on sexuality. I also think that high-frequency ejaculation might be a sign of increased arousal, and that can be linked to positive factors like exercise, mental health, and feeling good in general.
At the end of the day, I believe that understanding your own body and what works for you is key. There’s no “right” number of ejaculations—it’s more about listening to your body, finding what feels satisfying, and being mindful of whether it's contributing positively to your life.
I’m also a fan of self-pleasure, especially when I’m not in a relationship or things are slow in the bedroom department. It helps me keep my libido up and keeps me from feeling too restless. But I've learned that sometimes less is more. When I focus too much on self-pleasure, it can start to feel a bit draining, and I’d rather save my energy for a more fulfilling sexual experience with a partner. I guess it’s all about balance. I think as long as it’s not interfering with your day-to-day life, whether it's 14 or 22 ejaculations a week, it's not really a problem.
One thing I try to be conscious of is whether ejaculation is becoming an obsessive habit. If I notice that I’m ejaculating too much or not feeling satisfied, I pause and ask myself if I’m just going through the motions or if I'm truly enjoying the experience. I’ve found that this check-in with myself helps me maintain a healthy perspective on sexuality. I also think that high-frequency ejaculation might be a sign of increased arousal, and that can be linked to positive factors like exercise, mental health, and feeling good in general.
At the end of the day, I believe that understanding your own body and what works for you is key. There’s no “right” number of ejaculations—it’s more about listening to your body, finding what feels satisfying, and being mindful of whether it's contributing positively to your life.