11-30-2024, 08:24 PM
Hey, I can relate to this! I’m 50, and I’ve definitely noticed that my sexual activity and ejaculation frequency fluctuate a lot. There have been weeks where I’m much more active, like you’ve described, and I’m up to 20 or so ejaculations in seven days. I usually find that this happens when I’m feeling really connected to a partner, or if I'm having a lot of solo time where I’m exploring different fantasies. But there are also quieter weeks where I’m less interested, and I might only ejaculate 5 or 6 times over the course of seven days.
One thing I’ve learned is that high ejaculation frequency doesn’t always correlate with a high sex drive or a healthy sexual experience. Sometimes I feel like it’s more about the mental state I’m in. When I’m stressed or distracted, my libido naturally drops, and it’s not about physical pleasure anymore; it’s more about needing to de-stress and reset. But when things are going well in my life, the libido and ejaculation frequency go up. It’s funny how your body knows when to release and when to slow down.
Masturbation definitely plays a role in my routine as well. I think it can be a good way to relieve sexual tension when I’m not in a relationship or if my partner and I aren't as active for whatever reason. It’s kind of like a natural release valve that helps me feel more balanced and less frustrated. But I agree with the idea that it's important to pay attention to how you feel. If masturbation or ejaculating is affecting your daily energy levels or taking too much time out of your day, it’s worth reassessing and finding a more balanced routine.
So, in my experience, I think the most important thing is to tune into your own body. Don’t be afraid to let go of rigid expectations or feel guilty about not meeting a certain number of ejaculations in a week. What matters is that you feel healthy and satisfied, and that includes both physical and mental well-being
One thing I’ve learned is that high ejaculation frequency doesn’t always correlate with a high sex drive or a healthy sexual experience. Sometimes I feel like it’s more about the mental state I’m in. When I’m stressed or distracted, my libido naturally drops, and it’s not about physical pleasure anymore; it’s more about needing to de-stress and reset. But when things are going well in my life, the libido and ejaculation frequency go up. It’s funny how your body knows when to release and when to slow down.
Masturbation definitely plays a role in my routine as well. I think it can be a good way to relieve sexual tension when I’m not in a relationship or if my partner and I aren't as active for whatever reason. It’s kind of like a natural release valve that helps me feel more balanced and less frustrated. But I agree with the idea that it's important to pay attention to how you feel. If masturbation or ejaculating is affecting your daily energy levels or taking too much time out of your day, it’s worth reassessing and finding a more balanced routine.
So, in my experience, I think the most important thing is to tune into your own body. Don’t be afraid to let go of rigid expectations or feel guilty about not meeting a certain number of ejaculations in a week. What matters is that you feel healthy and satisfied, and that includes both physical and mental well-being