11-30-2024, 08:22 PM
Hey, I know it can be tough not to compare yourself to past partners, but I think you're overlooking a very important aspect of sexual satisfaction—connection and technique. While yes, some people may experience physical sensations due to size, the best orgasms I’ve had were less about the size of the person I was with and more about the quality of our interaction. The best orgasms for me come from really understanding what my partner needs, focusing on the pleasure they’re receiving, and adjusting accordingly. I’ve had amazing experiences even with partners who were smaller than average because we had a strong emotional bond, and we really communicated during sex.
You mentioned that your partner has had experiences with much larger partners, and it sounds like size was a factor in those orgasms, but there's more to consider. If you focus on her pleasure and really take the time to explore what makes her tick—whether that’s with toys, oral sex, or even manual stimulation—you’ll notice a difference. You don’t have to rely on just penetration to give her a great experience. Incorporating a little variety into the mix can have a huge impact. Sometimes switching up the pace or introducing some playful elements like dirty talk or roleplay can make the orgasm feel more intense.
I would also suggest focusing on the emotional connection and the anticipation. The longer you can keep her in a state of arousal without rushing into the climax, the more rewarding it will be. A lot of women enjoy the sensation of being teased, of having their pleasure slowly built up. Take time to explore her body, find out what she responds to the most, and experiment with different ways of pleasuring her. For me, the most powerful orgasms are those where you feel completely in sync with your partner, where everything feels natural, connected, and effortless.
Remember that it’s not about 'one-upmanship' with past lovers, but about creating your own unique experiences together. And trust me, you can absolutely give her great orgasms even if your size doesn’t match up to her previous partners. What matters most is the connection you share and your willingness to learn and adapt to her needs
You mentioned that your partner has had experiences with much larger partners, and it sounds like size was a factor in those orgasms, but there's more to consider. If you focus on her pleasure and really take the time to explore what makes her tick—whether that’s with toys, oral sex, or even manual stimulation—you’ll notice a difference. You don’t have to rely on just penetration to give her a great experience. Incorporating a little variety into the mix can have a huge impact. Sometimes switching up the pace or introducing some playful elements like dirty talk or roleplay can make the orgasm feel more intense.
I would also suggest focusing on the emotional connection and the anticipation. The longer you can keep her in a state of arousal without rushing into the climax, the more rewarding it will be. A lot of women enjoy the sensation of being teased, of having their pleasure slowly built up. Take time to explore her body, find out what she responds to the most, and experiment with different ways of pleasuring her. For me, the most powerful orgasms are those where you feel completely in sync with your partner, where everything feels natural, connected, and effortless.
Remember that it’s not about 'one-upmanship' with past lovers, but about creating your own unique experiences together. And trust me, you can absolutely give her great orgasms even if your size doesn’t match up to her previous partners. What matters most is the connection you share and your willingness to learn and adapt to her needs