11-30-2024, 07:08 PM
Talk about way to kill the mood and ultimately crush my ego. It's very demasculinizing when you're in the middle of making love, and from where I was sitting, I thought this was one of the better sessions we've had together...so far, anyway.
So there's always been this issue we run into a lot of the times we've been intimate. She likes it slow and sensual and not so deep, from what I've gathered over the time we've been together. This isn't verbally communicated ,mind you. I'm just basing my claims off past experience and reactions.
A big roadblock is I go too hard , too deep and she just kind of turns off right away. Like shes in pain, it seems. My thing is, if the stimulation to my penis isn't consistent, my mind tends to wander and I lose interest very quickly, resulting in a less than hard dick.I dont know exactly what she wants or how she wants it or where or when or anything. This information isn't shared with me. I usually get on, give it my best and hope she gets off before I do. That's always the gameplan anyway. Tonight were in the middle of doing it and we stop because I'm hurting her by going too hard or whatever and she chimes in with something smart like "do you know how many times youve made me cum?" I'm curious and inquire and she answers "never"
My blood rushes back into the rest of my body and I am totally dead in the water at this point. I love this girl and that shit isnt easy to hear, especially in the middle of what I thought was a passionate moment
How do i recover from this?
So there's always been this issue we run into a lot of the times we've been intimate. She likes it slow and sensual and not so deep, from what I've gathered over the time we've been together. This isn't verbally communicated ,mind you. I'm just basing my claims off past experience and reactions.
A big roadblock is I go too hard , too deep and she just kind of turns off right away. Like shes in pain, it seems. My thing is, if the stimulation to my penis isn't consistent, my mind tends to wander and I lose interest very quickly, resulting in a less than hard dick.I dont know exactly what she wants or how she wants it or where or when or anything. This information isn't shared with me. I usually get on, give it my best and hope she gets off before I do. That's always the gameplan anyway. Tonight were in the middle of doing it and we stop because I'm hurting her by going too hard or whatever and she chimes in with something smart like "do you know how many times youve made me cum?" I'm curious and inquire and she answers "never"
My blood rushes back into the rest of my body and I am totally dead in the water at this point. I love this girl and that shit isnt easy to hear, especially in the middle of what I thought was a passionate moment
How do i recover from this?