Girls, how often do you fake an orgasm?

[piciossa]

Reading through this topic, I can’t help but wonder: how much of this is on us as men? Sure, there are societal pressures on women, but if we’re not creating an environment where they feel comfortable being honest, aren’t we part of the problem? I think a lot of guys, myself included, can be guilty of assuming we know what our partner wants without actually asking.

One of my exes once told me she faked it a few times early in our relationship because she didn’t want to hurt my feelings. I was stunned, but it made me realize how little I’d actually checked in with her during sex. I was so focused on trying to impress her that I forgot to include her in the experience. It was a wake-up call.

Since then, I’ve made it a point to ask questions and pay attention to non-verbal cues. It’s not just about technique; it’s about understanding what makes your partner feel valued and seen. When you’re genuinely tuned in, there’s less room for miscommunication—and less chance they’ll feel the need to fake it.

At the end of the day, intimacy is a two-way street. If you’re only focused on your own satisfaction or validation, you’re missing the point. Real connection comes from prioritizing your partner’s needs just as much as your own, if not more