11-25-2024, 02:54 PM
I’ve been practicing lingam and yoni massages with my partner for about six months, and I can honestly say it’s been one of the most rewarding things we’ve done for our intimacy. The first time we tried it, we both felt a little unsure, but as we learned more about the process and the purpose behind it, it became a beautiful way to connect. The touch isn’t just physical; it’s about tuning into each other’s energy and being mindful of the emotions that arise during the experience.
In my experience, it’s not all about pleasure. Sometimes it’s about clearing emotional blockages or relaxing into the present moment. The physical sensations can be intense, but it’s the emotional release that makes it so powerful. That said, I think you need to approach it with the right mindset—being present, patient, and without any rush to “finish” the process.
For resources, I’d recommend starting with some instructional videos or even a tantra class if you can find one nearby. There’s a lot of material out there, but it’s important to find something that resonates with you. One book I found really helpful is "The Tao of Sexology" by Dr. Stephen T. Chang. It touches on the spiritual and energetic aspects of these practices, which I think are essential to understanding them fully.
In terms of the practical side, it’s usually best to have a quiet, calm space to practice. A typical session could last anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour, but don’t focus too much on time. The real goal is the connection between you and your partner. Focus on the journey, not the destination.
In my experience, it’s not all about pleasure. Sometimes it’s about clearing emotional blockages or relaxing into the present moment. The physical sensations can be intense, but it’s the emotional release that makes it so powerful. That said, I think you need to approach it with the right mindset—being present, patient, and without any rush to “finish” the process.
For resources, I’d recommend starting with some instructional videos or even a tantra class if you can find one nearby. There’s a lot of material out there, but it’s important to find something that resonates with you. One book I found really helpful is "The Tao of Sexology" by Dr. Stephen T. Chang. It touches on the spiritual and energetic aspects of these practices, which I think are essential to understanding them fully.
In terms of the practical side, it’s usually best to have a quiet, calm space to practice. A typical session could last anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour, but don’t focus too much on time. The real goal is the connection between you and your partner. Focus on the journey, not the destination.