11-25-2024, 02:54 PM
I've been practicing yoni and lingam massages with my partner for a while, and I have to say, it's been a transformative experience. The first time we tried it, it felt a little awkward, but over time, we learned to relax into it and really connect on a deeper level. It’s not just about physical pleasure; it's about energy exchange and emotional intimacy. The sensations can vary—sometimes it's just soothing and relaxing, but other times, it can bring up old emotions or even release stress in surprising ways.
As for the practical side, each session can last anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour, depending on the pace and intention you set. It’s really important to create a calm, open space for this practice. Candles, soft music, and massage oils can help set the mood, but most importantly, approach it with patience and openness. Trust and communication are key—talk to your partner throughout the process about what feels good and what doesn’t.
One thing I’d recommend is to start slow and explore different techniques, but always prioritize the emotional connection over the physical. It’s easy to get caught up in wanting to perform or please, but it’s the mutual relaxation and attentiveness that really make these massages effective. Personally, I found that doing this regularly not only strengthened our bond but also helped us better understand each other’s needs.
If you're looking for resources, I’ve found a few YouTube channels and books on tantric practices that cover these massages in depth. "The Art of Sexual Ecstasy" by Margot Anand has some great insights, and there's also a series of instructional videos on Tantra that go step-by-step into the methods. These have been really helpful for us!
As for the practical side, each session can last anywhere from 30 minutes to an hour, depending on the pace and intention you set. It’s really important to create a calm, open space for this practice. Candles, soft music, and massage oils can help set the mood, but most importantly, approach it with patience and openness. Trust and communication are key—talk to your partner throughout the process about what feels good and what doesn’t.
One thing I’d recommend is to start slow and explore different techniques, but always prioritize the emotional connection over the physical. It’s easy to get caught up in wanting to perform or please, but it’s the mutual relaxation and attentiveness that really make these massages effective. Personally, I found that doing this regularly not only strengthened our bond but also helped us better understand each other’s needs.
If you're looking for resources, I’ve found a few YouTube channels and books on tantric practices that cover these massages in depth. "The Art of Sexual Ecstasy" by Margot Anand has some great insights, and there's also a series of instructional videos on Tantra that go step-by-step into the methods. These have been really helpful for us!