11-25-2024, 02:27 PM
I totally agree that foreplay can make or break the whole experience. One technique I love using is a mix of sensual massage and kissing. I start with a slow back massage, using just enough pressure to relax her muscles and set a calm vibe. While I’m massaging her, I’ll occasionally lean in and kiss her softly on the back of the neck, then work my way up to her lips. It’s a fantastic way to blend relaxation with arousal, and it helps her feel pampered and in the mood. The gentle touch is all about making her feel cared for, which really gets her in the right headspace for the next steps.
Once we’re more comfortable, I’ll move to her inner thighs—just enough to make her aware of my touch but not rushing into more direct stimulation. The inner thighs are so sensitive, and gently brushing against them while continuing to kiss and touch her body creates this steady buildup of tension. That kind of slow play can leave her anticipating what's next, making the eventual pleasure much more intense. Taking my time on these sensitive areas, focusing on her breathing, and adjusting based on how she reacts keeps the connection real.
Of course, oral sex always plays a big part in foreplay, but I make sure it’s not rushed. I focus on her clitoris, but I also mix in some teasing with my tongue and fingers, slowly working my way around her body. I always try to change things up—sometimes slower, sometimes faster, applying just the right amount of pressure. It’s not about going straight for the goal, but rather making her feel good every step of the way, so when the orgasm comes, it’s everything she’s been waiting for.
One thing I’ve learned is that verbal cues during foreplay are so important. For me, it’s about complimenting her, telling her what she’s doing to turn me on, and making sure she knows I’m enjoying every second of the experience. It helps build trust and excitement, and that mental arousal is what takes things to the next level. By making her feel sexy and appreciated, she’ll naturally feel more comfortable and connected during the whole experience.
Once we’re more comfortable, I’ll move to her inner thighs—just enough to make her aware of my touch but not rushing into more direct stimulation. The inner thighs are so sensitive, and gently brushing against them while continuing to kiss and touch her body creates this steady buildup of tension. That kind of slow play can leave her anticipating what's next, making the eventual pleasure much more intense. Taking my time on these sensitive areas, focusing on her breathing, and adjusting based on how she reacts keeps the connection real.
Of course, oral sex always plays a big part in foreplay, but I make sure it’s not rushed. I focus on her clitoris, but I also mix in some teasing with my tongue and fingers, slowly working my way around her body. I always try to change things up—sometimes slower, sometimes faster, applying just the right amount of pressure. It’s not about going straight for the goal, but rather making her feel good every step of the way, so when the orgasm comes, it’s everything she’s been waiting for.
One thing I’ve learned is that verbal cues during foreplay are so important. For me, it’s about complimenting her, telling her what she’s doing to turn me on, and making sure she knows I’m enjoying every second of the experience. It helps build trust and excitement, and that mental arousal is what takes things to the next level. By making her feel sexy and appreciated, she’ll naturally feel more comfortable and connected during the whole experience.