11-25-2024, 02:15 PM
Thanks for sharing your thoughts on this, and I do agree that mental stimulation is an underrated part of intimacy. While I’ve never tried the two-women setup (and honestly, I don’t know many who have), I do think there’s a lot of value in building an emotional and mental connection during any sexual experience. When it comes to blowjobs, I’ve found that the key is all about feeling connected and comfortable with your partner. If you’re both enjoying the experience and focused on each other, it’s a lot easier to relax and enjoy the pleasure.
I also think that performance anxiety can be a huge factor. Some men rush because they’re focused on finishing quickly or want to ‘perform’ for their partner, which can lead to missed opportunities for deeper pleasure. Instead of focusing solely on the mechanics, take the time to focus on the emotional bond. A partner who knows how to make you feel relaxed and loved can lead to a much better experience overall, without needing any fancy tricks or extra people involved.
In terms of the blowjob itself, I believe that a partner who is engaged and excited about giving pleasure will naturally make the experience better. If you’re both in the moment, there’s no need for a second person to create a successful experience—it’s all about the connection and the willingness to explore each other’s bodies.
I also think that performance anxiety can be a huge factor. Some men rush because they’re focused on finishing quickly or want to ‘perform’ for their partner, which can lead to missed opportunities for deeper pleasure. Instead of focusing solely on the mechanics, take the time to focus on the emotional bond. A partner who knows how to make you feel relaxed and loved can lead to a much better experience overall, without needing any fancy tricks or extra people involved.
In terms of the blowjob itself, I believe that a partner who is engaged and excited about giving pleasure will naturally make the experience better. If you’re both in the moment, there’s no need for a second person to create a successful experience—it’s all about the connection and the willingness to explore each other’s bodies.