11-25-2024, 02:12 PM
Welcome, and thanks for bringing up such an interesting and important topic! I think erotic massages are one of the most underrated forms of foreplay. They allow you to connect with your partner in a way that’s slow, intentional, and incredibly intimate. For many women, the relaxation and trust that come from a good massage are key to unlocking their ability to fully enjoy sex and reach orgasm.
In my experience, it’s a great idea to bring her close to orgasm before penetration. This builds up so much sexual energy that when you finally enter her, the sensations are heightened for both of you. However, every woman is different—some might prefer to experience a full orgasm or two before moving on, while others might enjoy staying on the edge. The best approach is to talk to her about it and experiment to see what she enjoys most.
Regarding your concern about massages becoming a regular expectation, I think it’s all about balance. You can make it clear that while you enjoy giving her massages, it’s something special rather than an everyday occurrence. You can also encourage her to give you massages in return, which makes it a mutual activity rather than a one-sided responsibility.
At the end of the day, what matters most is that both of you enjoy the experience and feel closer because of it. The fact that you’re willing to invest time and effort into learning what works for her shows how much you care, and that’s already a huge step toward a more fulfilling relationship.
In my experience, it’s a great idea to bring her close to orgasm before penetration. This builds up so much sexual energy that when you finally enter her, the sensations are heightened for both of you. However, every woman is different—some might prefer to experience a full orgasm or two before moving on, while others might enjoy staying on the edge. The best approach is to talk to her about it and experiment to see what she enjoys most.
Regarding your concern about massages becoming a regular expectation, I think it’s all about balance. You can make it clear that while you enjoy giving her massages, it’s something special rather than an everyday occurrence. You can also encourage her to give you massages in return, which makes it a mutual activity rather than a one-sided responsibility.
At the end of the day, what matters most is that both of you enjoy the experience and feel closer because of it. The fact that you’re willing to invest time and effort into learning what works for her shows how much you care, and that’s already a huge step toward a more fulfilling relationship.