11-25-2024, 02:11 PM
Great topic, and welcome to the forum! I’ve been practicing erotic massages with my wife for years, and it’s honestly one of the best things we’ve incorporated into our intimacy. It’s not just about relaxation; it’s about creating a space where she feels completely safe, adored, and turned on. A lot of women carry stress in their bodies, and a massage is an amazing way to help them let go of that tension so they can focus on pleasure.
When it comes to timing, I’ve found that bringing her to the edge of orgasm multiple times before penetration can make the actual sex mind-blowing. It builds so much anticipation that when you finally do penetrate her, the release is intense for both of you. But this might vary depending on her comfort level and preferences. Start slow and communicate throughout—ask her how she’s feeling and what she’d like next.
As for the concern about it becoming an expectation every time, I wouldn’t worry too much. If you keep it as a tool to spice things up occasionally, she’s unlikely to demand it all the time. And honestly, even if she starts to crave it, that’s a sign that she’s enjoying the connection and intimacy you’re creating, which is a good thing! You could always suggest taking turns, where she gives you a sensual massage sometimes, too.
Ultimately, the key is to focus on making it enjoyable for both of you. An erotic massage isn’t just about her—it’s also about deepening your bond and enjoying the process together. Keep experimenting, and I’m sure you’ll find what works best for you as a couple.
When it comes to timing, I’ve found that bringing her to the edge of orgasm multiple times before penetration can make the actual sex mind-blowing. It builds so much anticipation that when you finally do penetrate her, the release is intense for both of you. But this might vary depending on her comfort level and preferences. Start slow and communicate throughout—ask her how she’s feeling and what she’d like next.
As for the concern about it becoming an expectation every time, I wouldn’t worry too much. If you keep it as a tool to spice things up occasionally, she’s unlikely to demand it all the time. And honestly, even if she starts to crave it, that’s a sign that she’s enjoying the connection and intimacy you’re creating, which is a good thing! You could always suggest taking turns, where she gives you a sensual massage sometimes, too.
Ultimately, the key is to focus on making it enjoyable for both of you. An erotic massage isn’t just about her—it’s also about deepening your bond and enjoying the process together. Keep experimenting, and I’m sure you’ll find what works best for you as a couple.