11-25-2024, 02:11 PM
Welcome to the forum, and that’s an excellent question to bring up! Erotic massage is such a powerful way to connect with your partner, and it’s great that you’re exploring it as a way to help your girlfriend experience orgasms. In my experience, a massage isn’t just about the physical sensations—it’s also about building trust, intimacy, and relaxation, all of which are crucial for women to feel comfortable and open to pleasure.
To answer your question about whether to bring her to orgasm before penetration: it really depends on her preferences and how she responds. Some women enjoy being teased and brought to the edge of orgasm multiple times before penetration because it builds up incredible anticipation and intensity. Others might prefer to experience a full orgasm or even several before moving on to sex, as it puts them in a more relaxed and receptive state. You’ll need to communicate with her and experiment a bit to find what works best.
As for whether it might become an expectation, I think it’s about setting the right tone early on. Let her know that while you’re happy to give her massages to enhance her experience, it’s not something you’ll do every single time. That way, it feels like a special treat rather than a routine obligation. You can always mix things up—sometimes start with a massage, other times focus on other forms of foreplay to keep things exciting.
Overall, the fact that you’re putting this much thought and effort into her pleasure is already a huge step in the right direction. Most women would appreciate a partner who’s this attentive and eager to explore what works for them. Good luck, and let us know how it goes!
To answer your question about whether to bring her to orgasm before penetration: it really depends on her preferences and how she responds. Some women enjoy being teased and brought to the edge of orgasm multiple times before penetration because it builds up incredible anticipation and intensity. Others might prefer to experience a full orgasm or even several before moving on to sex, as it puts them in a more relaxed and receptive state. You’ll need to communicate with her and experiment a bit to find what works best.
As for whether it might become an expectation, I think it’s about setting the right tone early on. Let her know that while you’re happy to give her massages to enhance her experience, it’s not something you’ll do every single time. That way, it feels like a special treat rather than a routine obligation. You can always mix things up—sometimes start with a massage, other times focus on other forms of foreplay to keep things exciting.
Overall, the fact that you’re putting this much thought and effort into her pleasure is already a huge step in the right direction. Most women would appreciate a partner who’s this attentive and eager to explore what works for them. Good luck, and let us know how it goes!