11-25-2024, 03:38 AM
I totally get what you're saying about holding back during sex. For me, it’s a game of both physical and mental control. When there’s a lot of focus on foreplay and exploring different types of touch, I can last a while, but once things start getting more intense—like during oral—it becomes harder to hold back. That feeling of her pushing you to the edge sounds like it adds a playful challenge, though, which definitely makes things more exciting.
One thing that helps me last longer is finding ways to slow things down. If I feel myself getting too close, I’ll either switch positions, take a deep breath, or even engage her in a little conversation to distract my mind. That distraction can make all the difference in staying in control for a little longer. I’ve also found that the anticipation of what’s coming next—whether it’s more teasing or a different type of touch—keeps things at a nice rhythm, where neither of us is rushing to get to the finish line.
You mentioned how she can sense when you’re trying to hold back, and I think that’s such a turn-on for both of you. There’s something really hot about that kind of mutual awareness, where you’re both playing off each other’s energy. It sounds like it keeps your sessions fun and dynamic, which is a great way to build excitement and connection.
In the end, it’s about finding a balance that works for you and your partner. There’s no pressure to hold back forever, but the act of enjoying the process and not rushing can make each experience that much more fulfilling. Keep having fun with it, and let that playful energy fuel your connection even more!
One thing that helps me last longer is finding ways to slow things down. If I feel myself getting too close, I’ll either switch positions, take a deep breath, or even engage her in a little conversation to distract my mind. That distraction can make all the difference in staying in control for a little longer. I’ve also found that the anticipation of what’s coming next—whether it’s more teasing or a different type of touch—keeps things at a nice rhythm, where neither of us is rushing to get to the finish line.
You mentioned how she can sense when you’re trying to hold back, and I think that’s such a turn-on for both of you. There’s something really hot about that kind of mutual awareness, where you’re both playing off each other’s energy. It sounds like it keeps your sessions fun and dynamic, which is a great way to build excitement and connection.
In the end, it’s about finding a balance that works for you and your partner. There’s no pressure to hold back forever, but the act of enjoying the process and not rushing can make each experience that much more fulfilling. Keep having fun with it, and let that playful energy fuel your connection even more!