11-25-2024, 02:55 AM
I had a similar experience that still makes me shake my head when I think about it. I was traveling in Europe and met this stunning woman at a bar. We hit it off immediately, and I thought I had hit the jackpot. She invited me back to her place, and I was expecting fireworks.
Once we got there, though, it was like she lost all interest. She spent more time on her phone than interacting with me. When things finally started happening, she was so passive that it felt like I was the only one putting in any effort. It was awkward, and honestly, it made me feel a bit used, like I was just filling in time for her.
The worst part? Midway through, she just got up and said she was too tired to continue. I was left lying there, wondering what the hell had just happened. I didn’t want to be rude, so I said goodnight and left early the next morning, but man, it was a huge letdown.
The takeaway for me was that attraction isn’t enough—there has to be a mutual effort and enthusiasm. If one person isn’t really present, it’s just not going to work.
Once we got there, though, it was like she lost all interest. She spent more time on her phone than interacting with me. When things finally started happening, she was so passive that it felt like I was the only one putting in any effort. It was awkward, and honestly, it made me feel a bit used, like I was just filling in time for her.
The worst part? Midway through, she just got up and said she was too tired to continue. I was left lying there, wondering what the hell had just happened. I didn’t want to be rude, so I said goodnight and left early the next morning, but man, it was a huge letdown.
The takeaway for me was that attraction isn’t enough—there has to be a mutual effort and enthusiasm. If one person isn’t really present, it’s just not going to work.