Discussion with wife about giving oral

[aiden15632]

It's really a silly discussion we were having one day while talking about past relationships. We were probably around our early 30s when she told me that I was the only guy that she had ever given a bj to. Now she had just got done telling me about all the guys she had sex with prior to our getting together, and it wasn't an outrageous number of guys but it was still plenty. She said some of the acts were questionably consentual because of being very intoxicated or not being firm enough to get "NO" clearly across to the stubborn horny worked up young guy.


She went on to say that when guys would take no for an answer some tried to persuade her to give them a bj instead.
That's when she said she would just let them have intercourse with her rather than give them a blowjob.


I asked her why didn't you just give them a bj and send them off happy? They would have got off and you wouldn't have had to have intercourse with them.


She went on to explain to me that she sees giving a blowjod a way more personal thing than having vaginal sex.

I scratched my head and had to wonder do any other women feel this way? I've never heard this rational before.

When I was a young man vaginal sex was always the home run we were all trying for. A blowjob was second best.

Funny thing;

Now that we're farther along in life and have been married for over 3 decades I wish I could get a blowjob rather then vaginal sex.

I guess she doesn't like to get too personal with me anymore.