11-19-2024, 08:10 AM
Hello all, new to the forum. Was hoping to get some advice. So I have been with my wife for 12 years. And the only way she is able to have an orgasm is when we are having penetrative sex. I have tried oral and fingering, etc.; she says it feels good, but she can’t climax from anything else… any advice???
First of all, it’s great that you’re open to exploring ways to enhance your wife’s pleasure and satisfaction. Every individual’s body responds differently to stimulation, and for some, penetrative sex is simply the most effective route to orgasm. Understanding her preferences is already a step in the right direction toward fostering intimacy and satisfaction in your relationship.
You might want to explore incorporating penetrative stimulation into other forms of intimacy. For example, combining oral or manual stimulation with a small penetrative toy could mimic the sensations she enjoys most. Open communication about what she feels during each activity might help fine-tune your approach and deepen the connection between you.
Sometimes, focusing less on the goal of climax and more on mutual pleasure can open up new avenues of exploration. Consider asking her about fantasies, sensations, or techniques that intrigue her. Additionally, experimenting with new positions or timing during penetrative sex might uncover fresh dynamics that enhance her overall experience. Patience, communication, and creativity can go a long way in keeping intimacy exciting and fulfilling.
First of all, it’s great that you’re open to exploring ways to enhance your wife’s pleasure and satisfaction. Every individual’s body responds differently to stimulation, and for some, penetrative sex is simply the most effective route to orgasm. Understanding her preferences is already a step in the right direction toward fostering intimacy and satisfaction in your relationship.
You might want to explore incorporating penetrative stimulation into other forms of intimacy. For example, combining oral or manual stimulation with a small penetrative toy could mimic the sensations she enjoys most. Open communication about what she feels during each activity might help fine-tune your approach and deepen the connection between you.
Sometimes, focusing less on the goal of climax and more on mutual pleasure can open up new avenues of exploration. Consider asking her about fantasies, sensations, or techniques that intrigue her. Additionally, experimenting with new positions or timing during penetrative sex might uncover fresh dynamics that enhance her overall experience. Patience, communication, and creativity can go a long way in keeping intimacy exciting and fulfilling.