11-18-2024, 02:33 PM
It’s interesting how polarizing this topic can be. I’ve had a mix of experiences—some women absolutely love getting their pussy eaten, and others are indifferent or outright against it. One woman I was with said it just didn’t do anything for her; she preferred other forms of foreplay. I respected her preference, but I won’t lie—it felt a little disappointing because I love the act itself.
One thing I’ve learned is that not liking oral doesn’t necessarily mean there’s a problem with intimacy. For some women, it’s about comfort and trust. If they’ve been with partners who made them feel judged, rushed, or like it was all about the man’s ego, it’s no wonder they’d be turned off by the idea. Building trust and showing that you’re there to focus on their pleasure can sometimes shift their perspective.
On the flip side, I’ve also met women who said they didn’t like oral until they were with someone who truly knew what they were doing. Technique matters, but so does enthusiasm. If you’re genuinely into it and take your time to learn what they like, it can completely change their experience. Communication is key—ask what feels good, listen to their cues, and don’t take it personally if it’s not their thing right away.
That said, if a woman is firmly against it and there’s no room for compromise, it might be a sign of deeper incompatibility. It’s not about forcing the issue, but being honest with yourself about what you need in a relationship. Sometimes, it’s better to part ways than to let resentment build over unmet desires.
One thing I’ve learned is that not liking oral doesn’t necessarily mean there’s a problem with intimacy. For some women, it’s about comfort and trust. If they’ve been with partners who made them feel judged, rushed, or like it was all about the man’s ego, it’s no wonder they’d be turned off by the idea. Building trust and showing that you’re there to focus on their pleasure can sometimes shift their perspective.
On the flip side, I’ve also met women who said they didn’t like oral until they were with someone who truly knew what they were doing. Technique matters, but so does enthusiasm. If you’re genuinely into it and take your time to learn what they like, it can completely change their experience. Communication is key—ask what feels good, listen to their cues, and don’t take it personally if it’s not their thing right away.
That said, if a woman is firmly against it and there’s no room for compromise, it might be a sign of deeper incompatibility. It’s not about forcing the issue, but being honest with yourself about what you need in a relationship. Sometimes, it’s better to part ways than to let resentment build over unmet desires.