11-18-2024, 02:32 PM
I’ve definitely encountered women who weren’t into getting their pussy eaten, and at first, it was a bit of a surprise. For me, going down is one of the most intimate and enjoyable ways to connect with a partner, so when someone isn’t into it, it can feel like a bit of a disconnect. That said, I’ve come to understand that everyone’s preferences are shaped by personal experiences, and it’s not always about you as a partner—it’s often about how they feel in their own body or with the act itself.
One woman I dated told me she didn’t enjoy oral because she felt self-conscious about her body. It wasn’t that she didn’t trust me; it was more about her own insecurities. That conversation opened my eyes to how important it is to create a safe, judgment-free environment. I reassured her that I genuinely loved doing it and that it was about her pleasure, not just mine. Over time, she became more comfortable and even started enjoying it.
I’ve also heard from women who don’t like it because they’ve had bad experiences in the past—either with partners who weren’t good at it or who made them feel pressured. For them, it became something negative rather than pleasurable. That’s why I think patience and open communication are crucial. If you’re genuinely interested in their feelings and willing to listen, it can make a huge difference.
At the end of the day, though, sexual compatibility matters. If oral is a big deal to you and a hard no for her, it’s worth discussing whether this difference is something you can work through together. It’s not about forcing anyone to change; it’s about finding a balance that makes both partners happy.
One woman I dated told me she didn’t enjoy oral because she felt self-conscious about her body. It wasn’t that she didn’t trust me; it was more about her own insecurities. That conversation opened my eyes to how important it is to create a safe, judgment-free environment. I reassured her that I genuinely loved doing it and that it was about her pleasure, not just mine. Over time, she became more comfortable and even started enjoying it.
I’ve also heard from women who don’t like it because they’ve had bad experiences in the past—either with partners who weren’t good at it or who made them feel pressured. For them, it became something negative rather than pleasurable. That’s why I think patience and open communication are crucial. If you’re genuinely interested in their feelings and willing to listen, it can make a huge difference.
At the end of the day, though, sexual compatibility matters. If oral is a big deal to you and a hard no for her, it’s worth discussing whether this difference is something you can work through together. It’s not about forcing anyone to change; it’s about finding a balance that makes both partners happy.