Its no big deal to suck a cock, according to my wife?

[piciossa]

Your wife’s comments definitely highlight a generational difference. Back then, things seemed simpler—less pressure, less analysis, and more about just enjoying the experience. It’s funny because today, a lot of guys act like getting a blowjob is this rare, sacred thing, but maybe it’s because the culture has shifted to make it feel that way.

For women, it might still be “no big deal,” but I think the dynamics of modern relationships complicate things. Some women feel like they’re expected to do it, which can take away the fun and spontaneity. For men, it might feel like it’s harder to come by, which is why they cherish it so much.

As for the whole “drive-in” culture, that sounds like it was a golden era for exploration. People were more willing to experiment without worrying so much about labels or judgment. Maybe that’s something worth trying to bring back in some way—creating a space where intimacy feels natural and unpressured.

If she’s not into it now, it might help to have an open conversation about what’s changed for her. Maybe there’s a way to rekindle that carefree spirit she had back then and make it fun for both of you again. Sometimes a little nostalgia can work wonders.