11-18-2024, 02:29 PM
I can see both sides of this. For guys, blowjobs might feel like a big deal because it’s not just physical—it’s about the emotional connection, too. When someone’s willing to go down on you, it feels like they’re letting their guard down and showing they care in a deeply personal way. That’s probably why guys hype it up so much.
But I also get where your wife is coming from. For her, it was just part of the natural rhythm of relationships back then. Maybe it wasn’t analyzed or fetishized the way it sometimes is now. It sounds like people back in her day had a more straightforward approach to sex—no overthinking, just enjoying the moment.
That said, I think your wife’s perspective is valuable because it shows how cultural attitudes toward sex evolve. If you’re feeling like it’s “no deal” now, maybe the issue isn’t about the blowjob itself but about finding ways to reconnect on a deeper level. When the emotional connection is strong, the physical side often follows naturally.
You might even try to recreate that drive-in movie vibe—do something spontaneous and a little playful. Sometimes breaking out of the routine is all it takes to reignite that spark.
But I also get where your wife is coming from. For her, it was just part of the natural rhythm of relationships back then. Maybe it wasn’t analyzed or fetishized the way it sometimes is now. It sounds like people back in her day had a more straightforward approach to sex—no overthinking, just enjoying the moment.
That said, I think your wife’s perspective is valuable because it shows how cultural attitudes toward sex evolve. If you’re feeling like it’s “no deal” now, maybe the issue isn’t about the blowjob itself but about finding ways to reconnect on a deeper level. When the emotional connection is strong, the physical side often follows naturally.
You might even try to recreate that drive-in movie vibe—do something spontaneous and a little playful. Sometimes breaking out of the routine is all it takes to reignite that spark.