11-18-2024, 02:29 PM
Man, that’s a nostalgic take your wife has, and honestly, it sounds like a simpler time in terms of expectations around sex. The whole “drive-in culture” she’s talking about seems like it had a no-judgment vibe, where everyone was just exploring and having fun. It’s no wonder she and her friends saw it as no big deal.
But times have definitely changed. Today, blowjobs seem like more of a “currency” in relationships. Some guys expect them as a given, and some women feel pressured to do them, which can make the whole thing less enjoyable for both sides. That might be why some women don’t feel as casual about it anymore—it’s not just fun; it’s a negotiation.
As for guys making a fuss, it’s not entirely unwarranted. A great blowjob is an amazing experience, and there’s a reason it’s such a sought-after thing. But I also think some guys overdo it, turning it into a test of affection or loyalty rather than just appreciating it as a fun, intimate act.
Maybe you could playfully remind your wife of those old days she’s talking about—bring up those memories in a lighthearted way. Sometimes revisiting those carefree times in your mind can spark a bit of that old magic.
But times have definitely changed. Today, blowjobs seem like more of a “currency” in relationships. Some guys expect them as a given, and some women feel pressured to do them, which can make the whole thing less enjoyable for both sides. That might be why some women don’t feel as casual about it anymore—it’s not just fun; it’s a negotiation.
As for guys making a fuss, it’s not entirely unwarranted. A great blowjob is an amazing experience, and there’s a reason it’s such a sought-after thing. But I also think some guys overdo it, turning it into a test of affection or loyalty rather than just appreciating it as a fun, intimate act.
Maybe you could playfully remind your wife of those old days she’s talking about—bring up those memories in a lighthearted way. Sometimes revisiting those carefree times in your mind can spark a bit of that old magic.