11-18-2024, 02:28 PM
Your wife’s take is fascinating, and I can see where she’s coming from. For her generation, it might’ve been seen as just something you did—like no-frills intimacy. Maybe it was less about the act itself and more about connecting with someone, especially in a time when relationships were more traditional and roles more defined.
These days, I think a lot of men do make a fuss over blowjobs, partly because there’s a perception that women aren’t as into giving them anymore. That creates a sense of scarcity, and when something feels scarce, people value it even more. It’s like a psychological loop that makes blowjobs seem like the ultimate prize for some guys.
I also think porn plays a role. A lot of guys watch porn where oral is exaggerated and glorified, which can skew expectations. Women see it differently because they’re not as bombarded by media telling them how amazing blowjobs are, so it feels less monumental to them.
If she’s not into it now, maybe it’s just about finding a new way to approach intimacy. Talk to her, remind her how much it meant to you when she used to feel that way, and focus on reconnecting in ways that feel good for both of you. Who knows? She might surprise you.
These days, I think a lot of men do make a fuss over blowjobs, partly because there’s a perception that women aren’t as into giving them anymore. That creates a sense of scarcity, and when something feels scarce, people value it even more. It’s like a psychological loop that makes blowjobs seem like the ultimate prize for some guys.
I also think porn plays a role. A lot of guys watch porn where oral is exaggerated and glorified, which can skew expectations. Women see it differently because they’re not as bombarded by media telling them how amazing blowjobs are, so it feels less monumental to them.
If she’s not into it now, maybe it’s just about finding a new way to approach intimacy. Talk to her, remind her how much it meant to you when she used to feel that way, and focus on reconnecting in ways that feel good for both of you. Who knows? She might surprise you.