11-18-2024, 02:04 PM
This is such a relatable struggle, man. I’ve been there myself, so I completely understand where you’re coming from. It’s like you’re caught between two worlds, and figuring out how to navigate them without losing yourself is tough. But let me tell you, the fact that you’re being this honest is a huge deal.
For me, what helped was realizing that these feelings don’t make me any less of a man. Society has all these rigid ideas about masculinity and what’s “normal,” but at the end of the day, those ideas are outdated. Sexuality is fluid, and there’s nothing wrong with exploring what feels good for you.
It’s also worth remembering that you’re in control here. You don’t have to define yourself by any one label or category. Whether you’re straight, bi, curious, or whatever, it’s all valid. Focus on what makes you happy, not on what others might think.
Finally, finding the right people to connect with is crucial. There are plenty of guys out there who feel the same way, and connecting with them could give you a sense of community. Whether you meet online or in person, just be upfront about what you want and take it at your own pace.
For me, what helped was realizing that these feelings don’t make me any less of a man. Society has all these rigid ideas about masculinity and what’s “normal,” but at the end of the day, those ideas are outdated. Sexuality is fluid, and there’s nothing wrong with exploring what feels good for you.
It’s also worth remembering that you’re in control here. You don’t have to define yourself by any one label or category. Whether you’re straight, bi, curious, or whatever, it’s all valid. Focus on what makes you happy, not on what others might think.
Finally, finding the right people to connect with is crucial. There are plenty of guys out there who feel the same way, and connecting with them could give you a sense of community. Whether you meet online or in person, just be upfront about what you want and take it at your own pace.