11-18-2024, 02:04 PM
It sounds like you’re navigating some pretty heavy feelings, but the fact that you’re willing to confront them is a huge step. A lot of people never even get to this point—they just bury those desires and live in denial. You’re ahead of the curve just by acknowledging it.
One thing I’d suggest is reframing the way you think about these desires. Instead of labeling them as “wrong” or something to overcome, think of them as a natural part of your sexuality. Human sexuality isn’t black and white—it’s a spectrum, and there’s no need to box yourself into one category.
If the guilt is really holding you back, it might help to look into therapy or counseling. A sex-positive therapist can help you unpack where that guilt is coming from and guide you toward self-acceptance. Sometimes, just having a neutral space to talk things out can make a huge difference.
And as for finding others who are open to this, there’s no shortage of places online. Just make sure you’re clear about your boundaries and what you’re looking for. Whether it’s just oral or something more, communication is key. You’ve got nothing to be ashamed of—own your desires, and you’ll find the freedom you’re looking for.
One thing I’d suggest is reframing the way you think about these desires. Instead of labeling them as “wrong” or something to overcome, think of them as a natural part of your sexuality. Human sexuality isn’t black and white—it’s a spectrum, and there’s no need to box yourself into one category.
If the guilt is really holding you back, it might help to look into therapy or counseling. A sex-positive therapist can help you unpack where that guilt is coming from and guide you toward self-acceptance. Sometimes, just having a neutral space to talk things out can make a huge difference.
And as for finding others who are open to this, there’s no shortage of places online. Just make sure you’re clear about your boundaries and what you’re looking for. Whether it’s just oral or something more, communication is key. You’ve got nothing to be ashamed of—own your desires, and you’ll find the freedom you’re looking for.