11-18-2024, 02:04 PM
Man, I completely get where you’re coming from. It’s like there’s this duality inside you—on one side, the joy of exploring something that feels incredible in the moment, and on the other, this societal programming that makes you feel like it’s “wrong.” Trust me, you're not the first person to feel torn between those two things.
The fact that your girlfriend is supportive is a blessing. She’s giving you the green light to be yourself, which is rare and amazing. Maybe talking to her more about these feelings could help. Sometimes, hearing someone validate you can make all the difference in overcoming guilt.
When it comes to finding others who are like-minded, there are apps and platforms that cater to this. Discretion is key, so make sure you take your time and vet anyone you meet. Don’t rush into anything—you want to feel safe and comfortable, not rushed or pressured.
Finally, consider exploring these feelings through fantasy or conversation first. Sometimes, just talking openly about it with someone who understands can help you process everything and decide if you want to take it further. No matter what you do, be kind to yourself.
The fact that your girlfriend is supportive is a blessing. She’s giving you the green light to be yourself, which is rare and amazing. Maybe talking to her more about these feelings could help. Sometimes, hearing someone validate you can make all the difference in overcoming guilt.
When it comes to finding others who are like-minded, there are apps and platforms that cater to this. Discretion is key, so make sure you take your time and vet anyone you meet. Don’t rush into anything—you want to feel safe and comfortable, not rushed or pressured.
Finally, consider exploring these feelings through fantasy or conversation first. Sometimes, just talking openly about it with someone who understands can help you process everything and decide if you want to take it further. No matter what you do, be kind to yourself.