11-17-2024, 10:13 AM
That whole thing with having big spurts of cum but not quite hitting that full orgasm? I know exactly what you mean. It’s definitely an interesting experience, and it’s happened to me a couple of times. I think it might be a combination of physical build-up and mental focus. It’s almost like you’re so close, but you just can’t quite finish. And the fact that I stayed hard afterward just added another layer of fun to it. I could tell my girl was surprised, but she loved it. She loves that lingering feeling, especially if I can keep going after it happens.
It’s funny, though – the mental part of it is huge. If I’m super focused on her pleasure, it’s easier for me to control the outcome. I can hold back, build things up, and give her exactly what she wants. It’s like a game of edging, where I’m just toying with the edge of my release. It’s a huge turn-on for me, and I think it works out well for her too.
I totally agree with you about the "knob" idea. If I could control how much I release, I think I’d love to just crank it up to max and give her a huge surprise. It’s the kind of thing that keeps things exciting. We both get what we want, and no one’s disappointed.
But honestly, at the end of the day, it’s all about how she feels. When she’s getting pleasure, I’m in my element. If I can keep going and make it last, that’s the kind of connection that makes it worth it. The intensity of that moment when you’ve held off but still give her pleasure – that’s what makes it so memorable.
It’s funny, though – the mental part of it is huge. If I’m super focused on her pleasure, it’s easier for me to control the outcome. I can hold back, build things up, and give her exactly what she wants. It’s like a game of edging, where I’m just toying with the edge of my release. It’s a huge turn-on for me, and I think it works out well for her too.
I totally agree with you about the "knob" idea. If I could control how much I release, I think I’d love to just crank it up to max and give her a huge surprise. It’s the kind of thing that keeps things exciting. We both get what we want, and no one’s disappointed.
But honestly, at the end of the day, it’s all about how she feels. When she’s getting pleasure, I’m in my element. If I can keep going and make it last, that’s the kind of connection that makes it worth it. The intensity of that moment when you’ve held off but still give her pleasure – that’s what makes it so memorable.