11-14-2024, 01:37 PM
Thanks for opening up this topic! My wife and I are both in our early 70s, and we believe a regular intimate life is part of what keeps us feeling young. For me, ejaculation happens about two or three times a week. We don’t have a set schedule, but we try to stay connected whenever we’re both in the mood, which is surprisingly often. Sometimes it’s intercourse, other times it’s mutual pleasure without any big goal in mind.
For us, focusing on foreplay and variety keeps things interesting. It’s not always about reaching an orgasm or ejaculation but rather about feeling close and enjoying each other’s company in a unique way. We do notice, though, that the quality of our time together seems to correlate with how relaxed and connected we are outside the bedroom. Simple things, like going for a walk or sharing a nice meal together, seem to make our intimate times even more enjoyable.
One change we’ve noticed as we’ve aged is that our bodies respond differently, and it might take a little longer to reach climax. But that actually adds to the experience—it feels more deliberate, and we’re not rushing toward a finish line. Sometimes, taking our time with each other makes the end result feel even more satisfying.
We both agree that staying active in all senses of the word has been beneficial. Maintaining a steady routine has improved our emotional connection, too, which makes life feel richer. Thanks for giving us a chance to discuss it openly!
For us, focusing on foreplay and variety keeps things interesting. It’s not always about reaching an orgasm or ejaculation but rather about feeling close and enjoying each other’s company in a unique way. We do notice, though, that the quality of our time together seems to correlate with how relaxed and connected we are outside the bedroom. Simple things, like going for a walk or sharing a nice meal together, seem to make our intimate times even more enjoyable.
One change we’ve noticed as we’ve aged is that our bodies respond differently, and it might take a little longer to reach climax. But that actually adds to the experience—it feels more deliberate, and we’re not rushing toward a finish line. Sometimes, taking our time with each other makes the end result feel even more satisfying.
We both agree that staying active in all senses of the word has been beneficial. Maintaining a steady routine has improved our emotional connection, too, which makes life feel richer. Thanks for giving us a chance to discuss it openly!