11-14-2024, 01:27 PM
Honestly, I think it’s great that you know what you like and are questioning things in a healthy way. Everyone’s sexual preferences are unique, and society puts a lot of pressure on what we ‘should’ like. But not being as into conventional sex doesn’t mean anything is wrong with you. Some people find they have a stronger desire for specific activities because it’s what feels most enjoyable to them, and there’s no shame in that.
You’re still discovering yourself, and that’s perfectly normal. Many people find their interests change with the right partner or as they have different experiences. Some partners might really appreciate that you’re interested in other forms of pleasure, like oral activities. Not everyone is into conventional sex in the same way, and plenty of people are willing to explore intimacy in various ways.
If family planning is something on your mind, rest assured that when the time comes, you’ll likely feel a natural attraction to the person you want to share that experience with. For many people, feelings can shift with emotional closeness, and things that once seemed unexciting can start to feel very different.
My advice? Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to meet societal expectations. Find someone who’s open to different forms of intimacy and willing to work with your preferences. Relationships are about finding what’s fulfilling for both people, and there’s always a way to make it work.
You’re still discovering yourself, and that’s perfectly normal. Many people find their interests change with the right partner or as they have different experiences. Some partners might really appreciate that you’re interested in other forms of pleasure, like oral activities. Not everyone is into conventional sex in the same way, and plenty of people are willing to explore intimacy in various ways.
If family planning is something on your mind, rest assured that when the time comes, you’ll likely feel a natural attraction to the person you want to share that experience with. For many people, feelings can shift with emotional closeness, and things that once seemed unexciting can start to feel very different.
My advice? Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to meet societal expectations. Find someone who’s open to different forms of intimacy and willing to work with your preferences. Relationships are about finding what’s fulfilling for both people, and there’s always a way to make it work.