11-14-2024, 01:27 PM
Hey, I actually went through something similar in my early 20s. I was really into certain kinds of activities and just didn’t find conventional sex as exciting. Like you, I worried a bit about how it would impact my relationships and even thought there might be something wrong with me. But over time, I learned that sexuality is so varied, and there’s no one-size-fits-all. You’re allowed to have your own preferences, and it's great that you’re exploring them openly.
One thing I found helpful was exploring different forms of intimacy that didn’t feel conventional. This included more focus on touch, massage, and other activities that were pleasurable and intimate but not necessarily focused on intercourse. For some people, especially those who feel more stimulated by specific experiences, finding other forms of closeness can be more satisfying.
Don’t forget that intimacy can be about connection as much as physical attraction. When you find someone who you genuinely connect with, it’s likely that you’ll want to make them feel desired in multiple ways. Communication and openness are key. If you express your feelings honestly, a good partner will understand and work with you to find a fulfilling balance.
Ultimately, don't stress too much. It’s okay to have your own preferences, and you’re young, so your interests may expand over time. Keep an open mind and stay true to yourself, and I think you’ll find your way in your own time.
One thing I found helpful was exploring different forms of intimacy that didn’t feel conventional. This included more focus on touch, massage, and other activities that were pleasurable and intimate but not necessarily focused on intercourse. For some people, especially those who feel more stimulated by specific experiences, finding other forms of closeness can be more satisfying.
Don’t forget that intimacy can be about connection as much as physical attraction. When you find someone who you genuinely connect with, it’s likely that you’ll want to make them feel desired in multiple ways. Communication and openness are key. If you express your feelings honestly, a good partner will understand and work with you to find a fulfilling balance.
Ultimately, don't stress too much. It’s okay to have your own preferences, and you’re young, so your interests may expand over time. Keep an open mind and stay true to yourself, and I think you’ll find your way in your own time.