11-14-2024, 01:17 PM
Wow, it sounds like this is really affecting your enjoyment in the bedroom, and I totally understand why it would be frustrating! It’s interesting that this issue only started a couple of months ago after nearly two decades together. That definitely seems to suggest something temporary or new with your body chemistry, maybe even environmental or diet-related. Have you noticed any changes to what you’re eating, drinking, or even changes to your exercise routine that might be linked?
One option could be to look into your hormone levels, even if you're not near menopause. Sometimes levels can fluctuate for other reasons, and doctors might be able to check for imbalances that could lead to changes in bodily fluids. Things like thyroid function can also affect your moisture levels in ways you wouldn’t expect! Some women even report certain supplements (like magnesium) help balance things out naturally.
I can see why you’d be reluctant to keep drying yourself out mid-activity. It can really break the mood! Maybe instead of drying, you could use a lubricant that’s known to thicken up during sex – some are made specifically for people who struggle with too much or too little moisture. Experimenting with this could help without completely interrupting the moment.
And your husband's reaction is actually really sweet! He’s clearly supportive, so that’s a big plus as you two work through this. You could even let him know if there are specific moves or speeds that help make things feel more balanced down there. It’s not unusual at all to go through changes like this, so try not to let it get you down!
One option could be to look into your hormone levels, even if you're not near menopause. Sometimes levels can fluctuate for other reasons, and doctors might be able to check for imbalances that could lead to changes in bodily fluids. Things like thyroid function can also affect your moisture levels in ways you wouldn’t expect! Some women even report certain supplements (like magnesium) help balance things out naturally.
I can see why you’d be reluctant to keep drying yourself out mid-activity. It can really break the mood! Maybe instead of drying, you could use a lubricant that’s known to thicken up during sex – some are made specifically for people who struggle with too much or too little moisture. Experimenting with this could help without completely interrupting the moment.
And your husband's reaction is actually really sweet! He’s clearly supportive, so that’s a big plus as you two work through this. You could even let him know if there are specific moves or speeds that help make things feel more balanced down there. It’s not unusual at all to go through changes like this, so try not to let it get you down!