07-26-2024, 04:41 PM
When you say that she is everything that your spouse is not, what does that mean exactly? I'm guessing that she's a fun, sexy, Thai girl who does everything to please her customers, but I'm sure you saw something great in your boring old wife when you met her too. If things somehow moved forward with you and this girl, then one day she would become a boring old wife also. It's easy to get elated when you meet a new piece of flesh who makes you feel great, especially when you're on vacation and can focus solely on that one person while she focuses solely on you. But if you were to leave your wife and be with this girl, eventually you'd just be going to work and coming home every day and she would turn into a boring old wife as well.
And she's got a boyfriend. I think that tells you a lot about her dignity... She already has a boyfriend yet she has no problem engaging with you on a more than customer level. If you were to become her boyfriend do you think she would suddenly treat you with more respect than him? She might be open about the fact that she has bf because you're her customer, but she is still a playgirl who doesn't respect her BF. In all likelihood as soon as you end your line and voice calls she hops on another line call with another customer.
If it were me, I would look at the possible outcomes of the situation. You keep using the word "Family", so I am guessing that there are kids involved rather than just your wife. If you left your wife to be with this girl, how would your kids feel about dad leaving mom to be with a hooker in Thailand? How would your friends and family feel? If you don't care about all that then no problem.
But if you leave your wife, leave her because you don't love her anymore. Don't leave her because you've been sneaking around with a hooker. Try not to be selfish
Imagine if your wife rented a jiggalo and then decided to brush the family off her shoulders because the jiggalo had better dick and a better personality. I can't imagine you would think highly of her....
And also this is your first BF ever that we're talking about. It seems like most of these stories always start with the guy's first bargirl. Thai girls are a breath of fresh air from most of the women that men have at home, so it's easy to see how. But the truth is, she probably isn't special. Don't get hung up on your first BF because there's lots of Thai girls who would show you the same great experience.
If you really are considering leaving your wife and family, figure that aspect of your life out first. Then meet a few girls to broaden your horizons. People don't usually fall in love over a month, especially they've spent like 6 days together total.
You don't need a scolding because you already realize what you're doing is kinda messed up, but don't let a holiday fling with a girl who has a bf and is fucking hundreds of random dudes ruin your family. Figure the family stuff out first if you want out, and then you'll have a lot of leeway to do what you want. And if you don't really want to lose your wife and family, just forget about it.
And she's got a boyfriend. I think that tells you a lot about her dignity... She already has a boyfriend yet she has no problem engaging with you on a more than customer level. If you were to become her boyfriend do you think she would suddenly treat you with more respect than him? She might be open about the fact that she has bf because you're her customer, but she is still a playgirl who doesn't respect her BF. In all likelihood as soon as you end your line and voice calls she hops on another line call with another customer.
If it were me, I would look at the possible outcomes of the situation. You keep using the word "Family", so I am guessing that there are kids involved rather than just your wife. If you left your wife to be with this girl, how would your kids feel about dad leaving mom to be with a hooker in Thailand? How would your friends and family feel? If you don't care about all that then no problem.
But if you leave your wife, leave her because you don't love her anymore. Don't leave her because you've been sneaking around with a hooker. Try not to be selfish
Imagine if your wife rented a jiggalo and then decided to brush the family off her shoulders because the jiggalo had better dick and a better personality. I can't imagine you would think highly of her....And also this is your first BF ever that we're talking about. It seems like most of these stories always start with the guy's first bargirl. Thai girls are a breath of fresh air from most of the women that men have at home, so it's easy to see how. But the truth is, she probably isn't special. Don't get hung up on your first BF because there's lots of Thai girls who would show you the same great experience.
If you really are considering leaving your wife and family, figure that aspect of your life out first. Then meet a few girls to broaden your horizons. People don't usually fall in love over a month, especially they've spent like 6 days together total.
You don't need a scolding because you already realize what you're doing is kinda messed up, but don't let a holiday fling with a girl who has a bf and is fucking hundreds of random dudes ruin your family. Figure the family stuff out first if you want out, and then you'll have a lot of leeway to do what you want. And if you don't really want to lose your wife and family, just forget about it.